I've been absent without leave for a while now. Well, that's not strictly true because I did actually give myself the leave. So I've been more A than AWOL.
Sometimes life deals you a difficult hand and mine decided to throw a major spanner in the works at the end of last year.
My family and I lost the brightest star. It was very sudden and very sad.
The next thing we know we're being swept along with a list of Things To Do When Somebody Dies.
We decided to plan a party to celebrate his life.
And what a life! Spent loving, laughing, taking chances, helping, inspiring, doing, seeing, creating, being.
And what a party! Happy memories, new stories, old faces and an overwhelming sense of love and support.
But now the gatherings have been and gone and I can't help wondering, what next? Because we're still reeling, still feeling bruised.
One thing's for sure, our shining star wouldn't have wanted any moping. He'd want happiness and a glass of wine or two.
And so I've put together a new list…
To Do
Be brave
Take chances
Grab life by the blooming balls!
(Dont shirk on apéritifs)
